More than any other holiday, Thanksgiving is for the makers. The ones who carefully curate the menu, making sure everyone’s favorites are represented. The ones who bake love into fussed-over feasts, and who rise while the frost still sparkles to start playing oven gymnastics while the house is still quiet.
Some of the dishes we prepare have the power to bring flavors and the people who shared them front and center, an especially sweet ode when those makers are no longer at the table. Others are about fun and creativity, which is just as important.
We offer three recipes that hearken to plates passed long ago, but are perfectly at home on today’s table. They were often made by those who loved us best — even if oatmeal in dressing and fruits and vegetables suspended in Jell-O were strange ways to show it.

A side of nostalgia
As a child, oatmeal stuffing was a hard sell. Witnessing Mom and my Grandma Aggie load every available turkey orifice with the mashed mixture was a mild trauma, one I’ve spared my children. But, as is sometimes the case with childhood tastes, my perspective on this special family stuffing has changed. Grandma would have gotten a hoot out of the current state of oatmeal’s trendiness.
Agnes Mae Ross Seaquist, my grandma, was a singular woman wrapped in a wee, feisty package. Her parents were Scottish immigrants who raised their family in Duluth. Aggie taught her son’s girlfriend, a culinarily curious kid, how to make her family’s dressing by feel. Plunging her hands into a large bowl, she’d smush the oats together until it was just the right consistency.
My parents would marry and each year my sister and I would get the speech, “You have to learn how to do this. Who will make the dressing when I’m gone?”
She didn’t need to worry. Every year I plunge my hands into the bowl, consulting my mom on its worthiness. Oatmeal dressing has become the side dish we eagerly pass and scoop. Like the best family recipes, it’s changed only a little for modern tastes. Water is replaced by broth. Nubs of Honeycrisp apples are seasonally perfect. And I revel in a cracked pepper rebellion that would have shocked Aggie with its prodigiousness. And it’s cooked outside the bird.
The change is not unlike our Thanksgiving table. When we sit down, those memorialized in food will join us; I’ll remember Aggie’s infectious laugh. We’ll pass plates and share stories while I fill everyone with all the gratitude, abundance and love that was poured into me.