My Aunt Mary Huey — choir director, church youth leader and daughter of a North Dakota pioneer Presbyterian minister — had an unusual hobby.
When she left her job at Hemphill Presbyterian Church in Fort Worth, Texas, in 1955, she was given a hymnal in which all the members of the congregation had signed their name on their favorite hymn. Mary treasured that book the rest of her life, and took to asking others to sign it, leaving page after page with signatures scrawled across the book's worn pages.
For 25 years, Mary led youth programs and directed choirs at Presbyterian churches in Chicago, Philadelphia, Fort Worth and Pasadena, Calif. But in 1965, on a sabbatical to prepare for a church assignment overseas, she enrolled at Union Theological Seminary and its School of Sacred Music in New York City.
On Jan. 23, 1966, Mary attended Sunday services at her favorite church in the city, Riverside. With a passion for social justice and music, she had grown to love the historic Gothic church in Manhattan known for its liberal theology and activism.
This day was special. The Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. was giving his fifth sermon from the Riverside pulpit — "Transformed Nonconformist." (A year later, King made history at the same church when he broke with the Johnson administration by opposing the Vietnam War.)
Mary took careful notes as the famous civil rights leader preached. She quoted King as saying slavery would not have lasted 244 years if the church had not sanctioned it. Her notes quote King: "The choice is not between violence and nonviolence but between nonviolence and nonexistence."
After the service, Mary joined others waiting for the opportunity to meet King. When her chance came, she told him about her hobby and asked him for his favorite hymn.
For King, who was raised on gospel music in the Baptist Church and steeped in Negro spirituals, this surely was not an easy call.