They want you to watch.
Like a car crash, violent performances such as the terror attack at two mosques in Christchurch, New Zealand, make us look before we look away. Some of us enjoy the show; we find it thrilling, like a horror movie. Most of us are sickened and saddened by it, particularly when we identify with the victims as if they were ourselves or our loved ones.
Driven by curiosity and a perfectly normal combination of sadomasochism and voyeurism, we are drawn to hurting or being hurt and to what is hidden and secret.
Media producers understand this well. "If it bleeds, it leads," wrote journalist Eric Pooley in 1989. Owing to the public's fear of, and fascination with, violence, murder and mayhem commanded much higher ratings. In the digital age, however, there are a new breed of media producers that we should be worried about.
The mass shooter who killed at least 50 worshipers livestreamed his rampage to Facebook from a head-mounted camera. His show was low-budget, but big-box-office. Propaganda by deed. It was his pièce de résistance. The shooter's coming-out party. A performance.
Such performances do more than put on a display. They are what sociologist Mark Juergensmeyer calls performative, meaning they deliberately try to change the social order by affecting the viewer and altering the viewers' perceptions of the world.
If we watch, the terrorists win.
The problem is, in the digital age, it is hard to avoid watching when we are incessantly bombarded with the sights and sounds of mass shootings autoplaying in our feeds.