Finding new friends as an adult is a challenging, awkward undertaking anywhere. But some Minnesota transplants will tell you that it can be particularly difficult to start fresh in the Twin Cities.
There’s a local cliché that Minnesotans will happily offer directions to anywhere but their home.
I love Minnesota. It’s my favorite of the several states where I’ve lived, which include Florida, New York, New Jersey, South Carolina and Connecticut. The only thing I’m missing is also an important factor in mental health: friends outside work.
The search for new connections recently led me to a dinner table with five strangers. We gathered through Timeleft, an algorithm-based service matching diners with others for a meal at a mystery restaurant.
Timeleft organizes dinners every Wednesday in 160 cities across 33 countries. The first Timeleft dinner in Minneapolis was held on June 12. More than 40 dinner groups have met here in recent weeks, according to the company.
Timeleft said it is focused on growing in downtown Minneapolis but may expand to St. Paul.
Before the dinner
Timeleft charges $16 for organizing the dinner. Before you pick a date, you are prompted to fill out a quiz about your personality, going-out habits and dietary preferences.
The app doesn’t provide any information about your fellow strangers or the restaurant until the days leading up to the dinner. It displays the general outlines of other diners’ professions and their zodiac signs the night before the dinner, but not their names or faces.