1. Let reservation agents, gate agents and flight attendants know that you or someone you are traveling with has special needs.
2. Book early to get the seats you want. Seats in the front of the aircraft are quieter and you can exit sooner.
3. When booking, consider putting the child with special needs in the center seat if traveling with two adults, or the window seat. Or, have one adult sit in front of the child in case the child kicks the seat.
4. Check in with the gate agent when you arrive.
5. Board last to lessen the time spent on the plane.
6. If you're traveling with another adult, have the other adult board first to set up a "nesting area" (iPad, blanket, snacks, etc.).
7. Bring something new and exciting to give to your child once they get on the plane.
8. For possible pressurization issues, have the child keep talking to you, swallow water, chew gum or use a rubber oral sensory chewing tool while taking off and descending to landing.